I wasn't sure I'd love it -- especially since the content didn't really apply to me as a content, unmarried person. To be honest, it wasn't my favorite. But as it turned out, my brain was so thirsty for her enchantingly refreshing writing style that I just drank that whole book up in spite of myself.
Some of my favorite quotes from the book are:
- When you are the giant, alien visitor to a remote and foreign culture, it is sort of your job to become an object of ridicule. It's the least you can do, really, as a polite guest.
- The happier twin sister of loneliness is privacy.
- Lebensneid - life envy, the certainty that somebody else is much luckier than you.
- When you have only one path set before you, you can generally feel confident that it was the correct path to have taken.
Marriage becomes hard work once you have poured the entirety of your life's expectations into the hands of one mere person. Keeping that going is hard work.
- I need him because I happen to adore him, because his company brings me gladness & comfort, and because, as a friend's grandfather once put it, "Sometimes life is too hard to be alone, and sometimes life is too good to be alone."
- The emergency that always gets you in the end is the one you didn't prepare for.
- There is hardly a more gracious gift that we can offer somebody than to accept them fully, almost despite themselves.
- At some point in our lives we must stop beating ourselves up over bygone blunders -- even blunders that seem so painfully obvious to us in retrospect -- and we must move on with our lives.
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